The Power Of Words

The words we use tell what’s in our heart. 😰 The words we use tells our level of spiritual maturity. Got fruit? 😰

We are living in a time where words travel faster and can go viral quickly! Isn’t it amazing the things that grab our attention. 😨

We choose every time we communicate to draw or repel. We project a positive or negative attitude with our words.

God bless us as we learn to choose our words to build up, heal and encourage one another. 😊

Comments, thoughts, anyone? Anyone? 😉

Proverbs 8:6 – Hear; for I will speak of excellent things; and the opening of my lips shall be right things.

Proverbs 15:1 – A soft answer turn away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger.

Proverbs 18:21 – Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof.

Proverbs 21:23 – Whoso keeps his mouth and his tongue keeps his soul from troubles.

Jeremiah 17:7-8, The Blessedness of Trusting The Lord

We are blessed when we put our faith, hope, and trust in The Lord! 😀

God bless us, as we remember, Romans 8:28 – And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.

Thank you Lord, that your Word reminds us that you can bring about good from any situation.

Faith It and Roll With It Wednesday

Wahoo! It’s faith it and roll with it Wednesday! (big smile) Friends, there will always be something that God is changing within us. Faith it! (smile) There will always be someone trying something, roll with it. (smile) Sometimes, we must lighten up! (smile)


Hebrews 11:6, says “But without faith it is impossible to please him: for he that cometh to God must believe that he is, and that he is a rewarded of them that diligently seek him;” and Romans 10:17 says “So then faith cometh by hearing, and hearing by the word of God.”

Here’s the thing, we’re to have faith. Believe and seek God, with no doubting or wavering. Faith it! Learning to be positive, faith it! Adapting to things, we can’t change, roll with it! (smile)

Sometimes, standing on faith for _________, can take awhile for the manifestation, faith it and roll with it! (smile) Sometimes, x, y or z, continues, roll with it! (smile) Patience, faith it! Work drama, roll with it! Kindness, faith it! Heavy traffic, roll with it! (small smile)

Quit using emoticons and type (smile), roll with it! (smile, wink, stick tongue out)

Finding ways to stay positive during challenges will gain experience and provide another way to handle something or someone! (really big smile)

Faith it and roll with it are little methods to help walk through the thing or adjust to the someone. (smile) Sometimes, singing or listening to a favorite song helps, as well as, smiling and laughter. (big smile) God is always in charge and His will be done!

God bless us as we faith it and roll with it today! (smile) We look marvelous! Faith it and roll with it!

Comments? Anyone, anyone? (smile)

Smile That Button Doesn’t Work Anymore (Part 2)

Ugh, I have another button! (shock face) How about you? Can I get a witness? (smile) Sometimes, we must have a sense of humor to laugh out loud or if we must sing a song! (wink and smile)

We talk a lot about the fruit of the spirit–love (giving), joy (gladness), peace (free from worry and fear), long suffering (patience), gentleness (kindness), goodness (generosity), faith (dependability), meekness (gentleness) and temperance (self-control), because fruit is needed for growth and maturity, as well as, healing the brokenness we may not know exist within us.

I remember back in the day, when I was having issues. I had the nerve to think it was everybody else until someone told me , “honey, you have a lot of brokenness in you”. (shock face) God is the ONLY one who will put the right folks in our lives to heal stuff that is not fruit!

As we grow and mature, being rooted and grounded in the Word, having the fruit of the spirit within us, and led by the Holy Spirit, we become whole and emotionally healthy individuals in Christ. No brokenness or mask wearing can exist in a spirit led life. (wink and grin) They will know us by our fruit. (smile)

Communication is important, thus my button. smile) We all communicate differently. We are all on different levels. God is working on each of us for different things. Thank God for his mercy and his grace during those times, that button is pushed!

Relationships without clear communication or being unequally yoked can push buttons. Any one carrying burdens God never meant for them to carry can push buttons.
_________________(fill in the blank) can push buttons.

Let’s talk about faith. Having faith in God is a beautiful thing to behold! There is no doubt, worry or stress when our faith is in him! (smile)

To live a life of faith requires perseverance (long sufferings brother) (grin) knowing God will equip us as he leads us to walk, crawl or run through the challenge. Pray and cast, by faith and keep our hands off while releasing it to God so that button doesn’t work anymore! (smile)

God bless us as we have faith with regards to our button that doesn’t work anymore!

Please share any comments about your button. (smile)

Speak To The Lies To Renew Our Minds (Part 3)

Glory to God! I was lead by the Holy Spirit to reblog this insightful post (smile) When you get a change, please check out Parts 1 and 2. God loves you, yesterday, today and tomorrow (smile) I pray God blesses you in a mighty way! (smile)

Not Everyone Thinks The Way You Think

We are all on different levels in life. There may be similarities, but differences depending on our life experiences. Learning to adapt and communicate with others is maturity. (smile)
Our level of spiritual maturity and the presence of the Holy Spirit is evident by the fruit within us. This allows us to show Jesus to a hurting world.

When we know who we are in Christ, the fruit within us, love (giving), joy (gladness), peace (free from worry and fear), long suffering (patience), gentleness (kindness), goodness (generosity), faith (dependability), meekness (gentleness) and temperance (self-control) comes out in what we say (oral or written) and how we conduct ourselves. (smile) They will know us by our fruit! (smile)

When we are spirit led, people notice something different. (smile) They watch how we handle stuff in life. They watch how we adapt and adjust without judging. We never know who is watching or listening to the words we speak or how we act. (shock face) Just quoting bible chapters and verse doesn’t mean you are spirit led and know The Lord. Actions speak louder than words. (smile)

When we are spirit led, love flows out of us and we focus on positive and uplifting ways to help others, as we keep moving forward in life. We release things to God through prayer. We learn to roll with it because God is always in charge and works all things out. Thank God for his mercy and his grace, when we stumble!

God bless us as we move forward knowing that every good thing comes from above! (wink)

It’s Roll With It Wednesday

You gotta love roll with it Wednesdays! 😉 Roll with it is a choice. Roll with it, is faith and trusting God to equip us with sufficient grace to crawl, walk or run through today! Anything else is irrelevant! 😜

We all have things going on in our life. We are standing on faith for something or someone. We have prayed every prayer and awaiting God’s perfect timing. Roll with it. 😉

We have to continue living our life and roll with it until God manifest that something or someone. 😉 Be positive because Philippians 4:13 says “I can do all things through Christ which strengthen me”.

Roll with it keeps us moving forward. Sometimes, we can smile and roll with it. 😃

Sometimes, we can smile, sing a sing, and roll with it because Romans 8:28 tells us “And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are called according to his purpose”.

Ain’t life grand! 😜 Roll with it!

God bless us as we roll with it, by faith, and let Your will be done! 😊

Thoughts? Anyone? Anyone? 😉

I’ve Been Nominated: The Liebster Award

Glory to God and thank you Booklovers1, at for nominating me for the Liebster Award.


I’ve come to realize Blogs Awards can create camaraderie and acknowledgement that fellow bloggers enjoy what we do. 😉

I am humbled by the nomination and give glory to my Lord and Savior, Jesus! He gives me life and purpose to let my light shine through words on a page. 😜 Thank you again, Booklovers1 for the nomination! 😉 Now onto the rules. 😜

However upon accepting the Liebster Award, there are a few rules that need to be followed:
– Link back the blogger that tagged you
– Nominate ten others and answer the questions of the one who tagged you
– Ask ten questions for the bloggers you nominate
– Let your nominees know of their award
Booklovers1 Questions:
1. If you could pick a favourite author who would it be and why? No favorite author. I love to read a variety of books. I have a few recommended ones I am still reading. What specific book or series of theirs do you highly recommend? I really enjoyed and highly recommend First Dance by Brian Connolly.
2. If you could pick any fictional world to live in, which would it be? What is so appealing about it? I honestly have no answer for this question, I’m a reality in the present kinda girl 😉
3. Out of all the fictional characters you have been introduced to, who do you really want to meet? What is it about them that appeals to you? Nobody 😉. Nothing 😉
4. What is your favourite bible verse and why (if it is not too personal)? I have 2 favorites–Romans 8:28 is my favorite because no matter what we go through, God works all things out and 1 Corinthians 13 because love never fails. 😀
5. What has been your lifelong dream or aspiration? To be a awesome wife and do my Heavenly Father’s business 😃
6. If you were able to learn any language, which would it be? To be honest, I have not thought of learning another language. I enjoy butchering my native language English 😜. Ain’t life grand! 😉
7. You find a time travelling machine in your backyard. What period of your life would you revisit? If I found a time machine, I would call somebody to come get it quick 😃 I’ll just say there is no period I want to revisit 😰. God healed me from the past. I can talk about it with ease but no way would I ever want to revisit 😁
8. You are generously given 1 million dollars. How would you spend it? I would give 100k to my business and the rest to people in need. 😊
9. If you were able to pick an actor/actress for one of your favourite fictional characters, who would it be? I have no fictional reference…reality is my choice.
10. Are there any recent movies you highly recommend? No Sir, haven’t had time for movies 😜

I nominate the following 10 blogs:
Arlen Shahverdyan.Author’s Blog
Free, Fun Or Interesting
Walking the talk
Writings of Rascoe
Written Thoughts
Jacob I Have Loved
Indigo Moon-Dazed

My questions are:
1. What makes you smile?
2. What makes you sad?
3. What motivates you?
4. How would you describe your personality?
5. What do you least enjoy doing in life?
6. What is your favorite song?
7. What is your favorite quote and why?
8. How do you relax?
9. What is your favorite bible verse?
10. Why do you blog?

Thanks again to Booklovers1 for nominating me. Your questions were a challenge but I had fun as you can see from my answers! 😜

It is ok if someone does not wish to accept the award. Either way, just leave a comment below so we are able to read your answers As Booklovers1 said “Have fun”!! 😉

One Another

Scriptures containing “one another” 😉

God bless us as we walk through (fill in the blank) ________________ encouraging one another today. As always, Thy will be done. 😉

© afriendofjesus2013Blog, Aug 2013


There will always be something that God will use to accomplish his will. Never lose hope, and keep your faith! 😉


Psalms 31:24 – Be of good courage, and he shall strengthen your heart, all ye that hope in The Lord.

© afriendofjesus2013Blog, Aug 2013

Smile, We Have Friends

Let us smile and thank God, we have friends, in our life. 😀



Smile and thank God for friends who are always there in times of need. 😉

Proverbs 17:17, tells us “A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity”. Smile and remember those times, a friend or friends stepped up, and had our back. 😃

Ain’t life grand! 😜

God bless us today, as we thank you, for old and new friends in our lives. We thank you, Heavenly Father, for always providing what we need and it’s always right on time! 😜

What We Got Here Is…Part 2

Failure to communicate. (smile) Starting today, let the grace of God give us the courage to communicate in our own style. Let’s rip the bandages off and just be real! (smile)



Spoiler alert, it is not my intention to judge anybody, ever, that’s Gods job! (shock face) I sow, He waters. (smile) It’s a beautiful thing when God opens your heart to your purpose! (smile)

We all bring something to the table! (smile) Friends, we have got to let go of fear! Fear keeps us stuck!

Pray and have faith! Life is to be enjoyed, in spite of our stuff. God will put people in our path to help us grow. As we open up and share who we really are, people get to know us and the awesome God we serve! Ain’t life grand! (wink and a smile)

God bless us as we move forward sharing our own communication style and let Your will be done.

Constant Kindness Can Accomplish Much

It cost us nothing to show kindness. 😜

Gentleness is a fruit of the spirit. Gentleness is the compliment to kindness.

Everyday, God wakes us up is an opportunity to show His presence in our life by showing the world something different! 😜

Love and kindness defeats fear and doubt every time!

God bless us, by faith, as we sow love and kindness to those around us today! As always, let Your will be done. 😀

© Ann “afriendforever54” Friend and afriendofjesus2013Blog, Aug 2013 –

A Bunch Of Awards – 13 Nominations

Thanks and God bless you, Ajay! I am blessed and honored to accept A Bunch Of Awards – 13 Nominations from Ajaytao 2010. 😀 Thank you for supporting my blog and being awesome my friend! 😀



I bless and share my awards with my awesome afriendofjesus2013 friends and supporters, as well as, nominate the following blogs:

Jill London
God’s Group
Heavenly Raindrops
SFoxWriting’s Blog
Morning Story and Dilbert
Revelations In Writing
Soul Gatherings
Treasures Of His Presence
Communication Made Simple
Shandra Harris With Heart Wide Open

God bless you! 😉

© Ann “afriendforever54” Friend and afriendofjesus2013Blog, Aug 2013 – present.

Anxiety and Fear Prayer

Please join us, in faith, by praying, for our love ones and friends who are struggling.


God bless us, by faith, as you answer our prayers. May your will be done.

Here’s Your Assignment…

Something different to ponder. 😨



Numbers 4, 7 and 8 are quite interesting. Ain’t life grand! 😜

God bless and enjoy your day! Feel free to share your thoughts. 😜

© Ann “afriendforever54” Friend 2013


Top of the morning or night to ya! 😜 Remember our post Go 24 Hours Without Complaining?



Thankfulness would be a sure way to avoid complaining. 😜 Think about it, when something or someone __________, speak out, whatever praise that works best! 😀

They say it takes 21 days to form a habit. This would be a good habit!! Praising instead of complaining and another way to renew the mind! How about that! 😜

Wahoo, something new to do! 😜 Have a marvelous day by faith!!

Check you later alligator, after while crocodile. 😜 Laughter is good for the heart! 😜

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© Ann “afriendforever54” Friend 2013

Love And Kindness

I extend a heartfelt thank you and God bless to heavenlyraindrops and sfoxwriting for presenting bloggers with an opportunity to grow their community yesterday! It was a awesome and thoughtful thing to do! Thank you both! 😃

God bless us as we sow love and kindness to make a difference to someone today! 😃

Go 24 Hours Without Complaining

Thank God for his mercy and his grace! How was your day? I was challenged today. 😰 I blinked, lost my focus, and got frustrated. Then I tried explaining, well it was more like complaining, ever rile yourself up until you hear your flesh man tell your spirit man, “hold up, I got this?” 😜

Let’s just say, today was priceless! I believe God has a sense of humor! 😃 Of all the Pinterest pins, this one caught my eye! 😜 I am still laughing that I just had to share. 😜

So, how was your day! 😜

It’s Roll With It Wednesday

Wahoo! It’s roll with it Wednesday! 😜 God woke us up today! Thank you Lord, roll with it!


There is so much stuff going on around us, we just have to roll with it!

Be positive and have faith that God is working all things out, what do we say, roll with it! Right! 😜

There is always something to be thankful for–roll with it!

And if we must, sing a song, that’s roll with it, Ann “afriendforever54” Friend style! 😜

God bless us as we walk by faith and roll with it! 😜

Encouragement and Kindness

There are always opportunities to sow encouragement and kindness to each other. 😊


It’s usually the little things, that mean so much, when we’re challenged. Our encouragement or act of kindness can make a difference when it’s needed the most.

God bless us as we extend encouragement and kindness today! 😊

7 Rules of Life

🎶Happy Monday to ya🎶 😜 By faith, let the joy of The Lord be our strength today!



Everyone has a story. God knows what it takes to move us forward to grow. Until we realize change is an individual thing; 🎶🎶we’ll be going around the mountain, one more time🎶. 😩

We have to keep our sense of humor! 😜 Stuff happens, how we chose, to deal with it, shows our growth.

Here’s the thing, some stuff weights us down and should be released to God. God is the only one who can change and heal a heart! Stuff keeps us stuck. Let it go. 😰

We must learn to be ourselves! 😜 God loves you! Ain’t nobody like you! 😀

In a sense, these 7 Rules sum up Philippians 4:13 – I can do all things through Christ which strengthen me and Romans 8:28 – And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who,are the called according to his purpose.

I especially like Rule #2 and #7. 😜 What are yours?

God bless you! 😀


We’re going to learn today that when we are grateful for the little things, it’s easier to accept that stuff will happen in life. Some stuff will help us grow. 😜



Each day that the good Lord wakes us up is a blessing! 😜 Good or bad, right or wrong, we make our own choices. There are times in life, we have to take responsibility for our actions.

Life is to be enjoyed, regardless of what other people are doing. Everyday, we have opportunities to sow love or a smile that could give a different perspective to someone.

Here’s the thing, whether we are saved or unsaved, life still happens! 😨 Gratitude allows us to know that regardless of what is going on, God is still in charge! 😀

Gratitude is thanking God for all good things and praying for a better tomorrow. Smile, it looks good on you!

God Bless My Old and New Friends

I extend a heartfelt thank you and God bless to my old and new friends at afriendofjesus2013, Facebook and the Friendsofjesus2013 Facebook page, Twitter, Tumblr, Stumbleupon, Weheartit, Google+ and Pinterest! God is truly connected in the 21st century!



Glory to God! This morning, I had tears of joy, as I prayed for God, to bless and move in each of your lives with the desires of your heart, for your blessing and choice, to follow, like, comment, reblog, retweet, share my posts, share my pictures with others! 😀 My cup runneth over!

Your support has encouraged and helped me, to keep moving forward, in growing this blog and finishing my book a reality! 😜 Glory to God!

Thanks and God bless you for your continued support as my friend! {hugs}

Always a friend

Ann “afriendforever54” Friend 😜

Please Help Little Riley O’Brien

Friends, let us support Brother Bruce Mills, share God’s group thoughts for 8/01/2013 to help Little 5 yr old Riley’s Urgent Need! God bless you!

Matthew 25:35-36… for I was hungry and you gave Me food; I was thirsty and you gave Me drink; I was a stranger and you took Me in; 36 I was naked and you clothed Me; I was sick and you visited Me; I was in prison and you came to Me.’ (NKJV)

Today my writing has a dual purpose. First, I am writing to share a little bit about what the Bible (God’s inerrant Word) clearly teaches us about having compassion for those in need…and second I am writing to help a specific little 5 year old boy named Riley.

Riley O’Brien is a walking, breathing, medical miracle…who is now in desperate need (along with his family), for a healthy place to live. Little Riley was born with Heterotaxy Syndrome and Congenital heart disease. The doctors said he had a 50% chance of living past age 1. Praise God…at age 5, Riley continues to beat the odds.

After 3 Years, 3 Months, 3 Weeks, and 3 Days of waiting for 3 organs– Riley received his Bilateral Lung/Heart transplant on March 5, 2013. Dr. Spray and the medical miracle team at The Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia conducted this very rare transplant surgery.

You can read about Riley’s miracle life to date at this link… Right now the family is in desperate need for a new home for Riley and themselves. The small 700 sq ft home, the O’Briens’ are still paying for, is laden with mold, which they could not bring Riley home to. So they are currently renting an apartment, until Camden County Habitat for Humanity builds Riley a new home. Praise the Lord for this organization !!

I am asking all readers to open their hearts and their wallets for a couple of dollars. If we can all share this e-mail…hit the share button on the posting in Facebook…re-blog on …re-tweet, or otherwise share this urgent need for the O’Brien family…this posting could go viral, and God willing, Riley will get his house !!

Bet you’re thinking you don’t know little Riley O’Brien. Here is where the opening scripture, spoken by Jesus Himself, comes into play. Jesus was speaking to both the righteous and the unbelievers in the opening scripture. The righteous responded with this, in…

Matthew 25:37-39… “Then the righteous will answer Him, saying, ‘Lord, when did we see You hungry and feed You, or thirsty and give You drink? 38 When did we see You a stranger and take You in, or naked and clothe You? 39 Or when did we see You sick, or in prison, and come to You?’ (NKJV)

And the Lord answers them saying this, in…Matthew 25:40… And the King will answer and say to them, ‘Assuredly, I say to you, inasmuch as you did it to one of the least of these My brethren, you did it to Me.’ (NKJV)

Friends, giving a blessing, not a hand out to Riley and his family, is in God’s eyes…giving to God directly. Please consider helping this family in need with a few dollars…or at least pass on this request any way you can, so that Riley and his family’s needs are met.

You can go to for the latest on Riley. If donations are made on 8/02/2013 (this Friday), the donations will be doubled by the “Hero Network” up to $100 = $200, for this one days donations. You can send a blessings to help Riley and his family by going to , clicking on “Donate to Wish”, and then clicking on “Grant a Wish”… You can also donate via check – Camden County Habitat for Humanity, 6955 Central Highway, Pennsauken, NJ 08109

If the Lord leads you, please consider asking your church to place a notice in the church bulletin with Riley’s help website Thank you, and be blessed !!

Please help me in this prayer for the O’Brien family…

Heavenly Father, we pray that this urgent financial need by the O’Briens’ will be heard by You, and that the hearts of all those who read about this family’s plight will be urged to share their finances and/or forward this message on. Your Word tells us that the prayer of a righteous man is powerful and effective (James 5:16b); and we pray boldly, so that You hear our request… If it be Your will, please grant this house for Riley, in Jesus’ most precious name and for His sake…Amen…

Blessings in Christ, bruce r mills

P.S. Any money donated that goes beyond the family’s needs, will be passed on to the
Camden County Habitat for Humanity, to help other families in desperate need of your help.